The Church offers the Third, the Ninth and Forty Days, as well as the Six Months and Yearly memorials for the departed. The customs are to offer a Trisagion Prayer and the end of the Liturgical Services.
You can also pray for the living and for the departed apart from the Trisagion payer when you offer bread and ask for their commemoration at the Divine Liturgy.
Contact the Pastor for these Trisagions and memorials for more information and to schedule a service.
For the bread if you do not know a bakery you can contact Mrs. Amalie Greer who might be pleased to prepare for you the bread for the Proskomide (Oblation) and for the commemorations.
Mrs. Amalie Mobile # (818) 489-9358